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Ciao Dolce Bella’s! It’s been a long time. I apologize for disappearing for so long but I was taking care of some family issues. I’m sure you all understand! Been there, done that, right? Well, family always comes first for me, so now that everyone is all good, I’m ready to get back to work finding the best sales! I have already found some amazing deals for you! Start browsing and shopping today! If you would like a private fashion style consultation please visit my website:  and sign up for my Personal Stylist Service for the Everyday Woman today! 🙂

I will be posting new and exciting tips, news, sales and more, stay tuned….

Much Love,

Shellie Alyssa


10 Things You Need To Create An Italian Style Wardrobe


An Italian woman’s closet contains a lot of things, keep in mind the closets in Italy are very small. But hold a great variety of items. Here are 10 things to have in your closet.

1- A black dress

2- Black high heel shoes or boots

3- Jeans (the perfect fit for your body type)

4- Accessories (lots of accessories)

5- Tops (in black, white, navy blue, brown, grey, red)

6- Pants (in black, white, navy blue, brown, grey, red)

7- Sunglasses (they don’t have to be expensive, they just have to look good on you)

8- Scarfs – Lots of colorful scarfs (some for winter and some for summer/spring)

9- Perfume (find the perfect scent that says something about your personality)

10- Purses – One great purse (black, white, beige, navy)

These are 10 things you should have in your closet to create a great wardrobe. Don’t forget that this is basically the entire wardrobe for most Italian woman. They mix and match all of the clothes and create beautiful outfits out of these simple colors.

The accessories is what most Italian women spend their money on. Hats, scarfs, jewelry, costume jewelry, belts, shoes, sunglasses. All of the accessories is what makes the outfits look different. Check out my accessory boutique for affordable accessories and ideas try my online clothing boutique

Of course, you can add more colors to your wardrobe over time. But the above items are the staple of the Italian woman’s wardrobe. It’s a great place to start. Enjoy!

If you would like a private fashion style consultation please visit my website:  and sign up for my Personal Stylist Service for the Everyday Woman today! 🙂

How to Dress Sexy, like an Italian Woman in Italy


Women in Italy actually dress conservatively, and show very little. The picture above is a beautiful picture of an Italian woman, but usually women in Italy look like this when they are in their homes, not walking on the street to the market. Italy is very conservative, they even have a dress code that is strictly adhered to when visiting churches and other religious sites. So, with this said, how do Italian women completely cover themselves up and still remain one of the sexiest women in the world?

I’ll tell you the secret…it’s really simple. They dress for men. Yes! I said it! They dress for men!

Women in America try to dress for other women. Who has the most expensive purse, jewelry etc. Who has the newest pair of designer shoes..this is American Style attitude. Don’t get me wrong, it’s fun and all ,having pretty expensive things; but when was the last time you heard your boyfriend or husband say: “oh baby, that designer purse looks so sexy on you”. hahahahah..chances are…never! Men don’t know about designers, they are only looking at the shape of a woman, and ummm…what the woman’s body looks like under all of those clothes.

So, Italian women understand that men look at the woman’s body, not really the designer clothes covering it. ok, now…let’s allow this to sink in for a moment…



omg! seriously! He doesn’t care about my LV purse and shoes????


sinking in now….

omg! I can’t believe it!!!!

sinking into my mind…


ok! I think I got it…

yeah, I got it! 🙂

Men are looking at your body, not your clothes. Now onto the secret…

How to remain sexy when you are covered up in clothing. Here’s the secret…


Tailor all of your clothes! Yes, this is the secret!

No matter what shape or size you are, tailor your clothes to accentuate your assets! For example, let’s start with an all black outfit.

A pair of black pants and a black top. This sounds so simple and so boring right? But wait… take both of these items to the tailor, have the tailor fit the black pants closely to your body, not tight, just close, so that the fabric is skimming your skin, you should be able to see the outline of your shape when you put them on. Also have the top tailored as well, bring in the sides closest to your waist so that your waist line is accentuated. Put the clothes on and look at yourself in the mirror, can you see that the snug fit shows the outline of your body? If a man looks at you right now with this outfit on, will he be able to see what your body looks like? The shape etc? The answer should be yes 🙂

You are most likely not showing any skin, cleavage, or legs or any body part out front, but he will be able to see the outline of everything and well…you know…this makes a man go crazy and wild with his imagination. (in a good way) It’s sexy to him, because even though he can see the outline of your body, he can’t truly see everything and it makes him curious, and this is sexy to most men. (whether they admit it or not)

Well, now that you know the secret to Italian women’s sexy and mysterious style, i’ll give you a few more tips.

Tip#1 – Be confident! Stand up tall and feel beautiful on the inside. When you feel beautiful, it doesn’t just have to do with looks, it is also how you feel about who you are as a person on the inside. Feel proud of yourself, your accomplishments, what a good person you are, how well you treat your family, friends, strangers etc. A person’s soul is what is truly beautiful and this will make you glow and be confident and beautiful.

Tip#2 Get a great pair of sunglasses that fit your face perfect! A great pair of dark sunglasses with a nice style is all you need. It makes you mysterious and the glasses are actually a great accessory to match every outfit! They don’t have to be expensive, just good enough so that you can see clearly through them, they have UV rays protection and you feel good in them.

Well, now that you know the secret, are you going to try it? 🙂 I hope this will bring a new confidence to you, and your life will be full of happiness and joy!

Stay tuned to my blog, I will soon be listing the items needed for an Italian women’s wardrobe.

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The Body Chain, How to Wear it!


This one chain is so versatile and adds extra sparkle to any outfit, even a bathing suit! Try all of these creative ways to wear the chain and much more! You can purchase it at

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How to Wear a Sarong 6 Different Ways!


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Black and Gold and Brights!


These are some great ways to use the clothes you already have in your closet and add some accessories to spice up the outfit! 🙂 Jewelry accessories can be found at

Beautiful, Delicate and Affordable Jewelry


Hello to all of my Fashionista Friends on a budget,

During this economical time, everyone is trying to cut corners but still try to maintain some level of normal life. I’m here to help you find great bargains and turn one outfit into many different styles by changing your accessories. In Italy, many women purchase the basic colors, black, navy blue, white, brown and red. With these basic colors in pants, skirts, shorts, tops, sweaters and a great pair of jeans, you can have a wardrobe that will create lots of different outfits.

Imagine wearing an outfit of white pants and a white top. I know, it sounds boring, but then add a few accessories, like the beautiful gold jewelry in the picture above. How classy and beautiful this looks, isn’t that a great outfit that you can go to work, happy hour and a movie. It’s versatile and comfortable.

The good news is, you can purchase these affordable jewelry and accessories at my online boutique and have it shipped straight to your door. Just visit my website, and sign up. Don’t be afraid to sign up, there’s no obligation to purchase, it just allows you entrance into my boutique as a valued customer. You can just browse the accessories to get ideas for what you might already have in your jewelry box. When signing up, I will email you once a week with special sales, coupons and much more!